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The Frog Prince (The Frog King)

The Wolf and Seven Kids can be used an example of a relationship between legends and first fairy tales.


The fairy tale also known as The Frog Prince and Iron Henry is a classic written by brothers Grimm.

In last decades it is mostly know by the name: Princess and the Frog, but if we want to understand the meanings behind all these titles, we should probably take some time to refresh our memories with a short summary of Frog Prince and then educate ourselves about amazing history of this famous story and its possible hidden meanings.

It is a well studied fairy tale, particularly popular at psychoanalysts, loaded with subconscious messages and none of its earliest version was never meant for children...

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The Frog Prince summary

The story starts with a king's daughter playing with a golden ball near a fountain in the forest. The ball drops in the water and she starts crying.

Suddenly a frog comes out of the fountain and asks her why is she crying. She tells him about the ball and frog promises to find a golden ball for her. But he want something in exchange. The princess is willing to promise him everything: her jewels, her clothes, even her crown, but frog wants something different: frog wants to become her companion and friend, to share her food and drink and even her bed.

She promises all he wants but thinks the frog can't be serious. After all she is a princess and a frog is just a frog. When frog bring her a ball, she takes it and runs to the castle already forgetting about her obligation.

Later, at the time for dinner, frog knocks on the door demanding what she promised. She still doesn't want to keep her word but the king, her father, supports the frog.

So the princess with an open aversion shares her food and drink with a frog and finally carries him to her bedroom.


The princess never took frog seriously!

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  1. What is the message of this fairy tale?
    • Don't judge by one's apperance.
    • Listen to your father.
    • Kepp your promise!
    • Be persistant and you'll be rewarded.
    • All above.

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  1. All above.

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In princess' room the final clash occurs. She puts frog in the corner and goes to bed. He insists to put him up or he will tell her father.

Than she becomes very angry and trashes him against the wall. In next moment instead of frog handsome prince appears in front of her.

They soon became man and wife. After that prince's servant comes with a carriage.

His name is Henry and we find out he was so sad when witch put a spell on his master to transform him in a frog, he bound three iron bands around his heart to protect it against breaking.

On the way all bands break one after another...

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This is digital edition of famous fairy tale illustrated by Walter Crane. He was He made a terrific job with this book.maybe the most influential illustrator of picture books in history.

Frog symbolism


The most obvious and most important symbol in this fairy is certainly a frog.

In general frogs brings good, although it can be connected to witchcraft. On symbolic level it is widely used and is in most cases connected with fertility, new life and optimism. This probably comes from ancient times and observations of first scientists who noticed frogs appearing 'out of nothing' on first warm days. They didn't know about hibernation and transformation, so these animals made pretty magic impression.

In ancient Egypt frogs were extremely popular because they were seen in huge masses after the floods of the Nile. Because Nile was source of life for the whole nation frogs were associated with life and fertility.

Seeing a frog can be interpreted as prediction of new opportunities, it brings good luck and it is linked with all sorts of transformation. In many cultures this amphibian is an intermediary between worlds of living and dead. In Japan they use the same word for 'frog' and 'return'.

When we talk about frog symbolism in fairy tales we should note fairy tales come from oral tradition of folk who was strongly connected with nature. With observing the astonishing amount of eggs the frog lays the link between frogs and fertility was also a logic consequence.

Frog meaning in fairy tales is in many cases very simple: frog predicts pregnancy. Remember The Sleeping Beauty? It was the frog who brought the good news about newborn finally on her way!

In The Frog Prince (The Frog King) the role of the frog is slightly different. It is not only a messenger, it also wants to be a partner. Sharing food and drink and bed... Well, it can be easily interpreted as a tale about growing up, maturity and possibility of pregnancy. In older versions of this fairy tale this is even more obvious than in Grimm's.

Grimms changed the story into a moral about importance of a given word and keeping one's promises, but it is still mainly a story about responsibility which is - let-s face it - actually the favorite subject of brothers Grimm.


More symbols' meanings...

The frog is not the only symbol in this fairy tale. I'll try to mention only the most obvious ones. Here we go:

- Golden ball: symbol of the vanishing childhood of the princess; when she loose it, she is so desperate she would give everything, even her crown to get it back.

Mythologists clearly see the sun in the ball and psychoanalysts explain it as pleasure, pure pleasure without responsibility, something only without a partner can be achieved.

- King: this one is easy. King in fairy tales in most times represents father (I will not go into depths of Freudian or Jungian approach) and always represents authority. His word is a law and he is the one who tells the princess she should keep her promise.

- Iron Henry: there are many interesting explanations of his role (I will present my original below), but some psychoanalysts think he represents mother. Proud mother who is happy and sad at the same time because she is losing a child. Prince and princess are getting married!

- We have more symbols: a forest (princess has to cross the forest to play with the ball and meet finally meet the frog), a castle (although the transformation of the frog could happen in any bedroom), a feast (not necessary representing appetite for food), a fairy tale number three (frog has three demands, Iron Henry three iron bands, in some versions there are three princesses, in others frog sleeps in her bed for three nights...), carriage by which they drive away in the ending scene (carriage can represent uterus) and many others.

But this should be enough for our little trip into depths of the story!

- Fountain: it is a symbol of purification and rebirth. In this case this is more related to the frog than the princess. There are also versions of the Frog King where water is unclear until the princess makes her promise.

Fountain can represent life force (this is true for a well too), inspiration and delight. Fountain of life is a known element in many fairy tales and it is also incorporated in Christianity through baptism. Water symbolism is always closely related to life.

Princess and frog


- there are many possible explanations of the basic elements

- to sum it up story talks about importance of given word and responsibility in human relations, especially among members of different genders

- the target audience are adolescents

The changes brothers Grimm made

It was the first story in first edition of Grimm's Household and Children Fairy Tales in 1812. Before we got the 'final' version in 1857 The Frog King came through many changes, mostly to improve the narration style, but there was also a lot of censorship. These can be read here:

Do you believe promises should be taken seriously?

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Different versions

Grimms' is not the most violent version!

There are many known versions of the Frog Prince. And there are Frog Princesses too.

There are versions with three princesses and without ball, there are version with deadly sick king who needs water to survive and only a frog with magic powers can provide it and there is also a variant from Scotland where the girls has to behead the frog before he transform into a prince.

We can also find a tale where the role of the frog is played by a snake and where the transformation of the beast into human being can happen only after burning the skin (groom has human form by night but he dresses into a skin in the morning), what reminds us of the myth about Cupid and Psyche.

None of known versions explains why the prince was enchanted. None of them involved the kiss.

Iron Henry is not present here, everybody's just fine without him

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The Iron Henry

Who needs him?

Iron Henry is from dramatic point of view totally unnecessary. All characters in the fairy tale fulfilled their missions, we have a happy ending and there is really no need for the faithful servant, who is pretty unconvincing (if he was so faithful he probably shouldn't leave his master alone in a fountain, right?).

There is a psychoanalytic explanation about his role: he represents the missing mother,as we already mentioned above. With him the transformation of all members of traditional family should be completed.

Maybe, but from the narration point (and Grimms were not amateurs in this field) the ending with Iron Henry just becomes more boring. And we know from many fairy tales from their collection the didn't really bother if one of parents was absent.

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So here is my little theory:

Grimms were for sure familiar with more than one version of the Frog King. One (from Germany, their fatherland) doesn't stop with the marriage between princess and the frog. He has to leave her and gives her a magic handkerchief. If the name on this handkerchief changes the color, she should know he is dead or unfaithful.

Later the color really changes and princess decides to go after him. She disguised herself into a soldier and succeed to get close enough to the unfaithful king, so he could hear how something metal loudly breaks. First he thinks about defection the carriage (just like in Grimms' version) but after he realizes these are metal bands around the heart of his sad wife.

He remembers her and happy ending follows.

I believe there is a good chance brother Grimm liked the idea of her love, dedication and fighting spirit, but not the idea of his unfaithfulness. So they used the idea of metal bands on the faithful servant instead.

And maybe I am wrong...

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You have to kiss a lot of frogs

Where the expression "You have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince" comes from?

Transformation from frog to prince is the most attractive part of The Frog Prince, so it seem obvious the term You have to kiss a lot of frogs... and all related expressions originates in this fairy tale.

We have already noticed The Frog King is loaded with blackmailing, sense of duty, pressure, anxiety and violence, but there is no kissing scene in it, at least in the Grimms' lifetime.

Search for the origin of the expression in literature doesn't give definitive answer on the question above. We don't know when the kiss replaced beheading or trashing the frog against the wall. Best found explanation was: "You have to kiss a lot of frogs to find your prince..." probably comes from americanized variants of the story.

This is very possibly related with generally present disneyification of classic fairy tales. We know how Disney changed The Snow White with addition of the kiss in the awakening scene and in The Frog Prince the same scene looks similarly justified. There is one more important change:

Kissing Frogs

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The terms about frog kissing is closely related with the world of dating, but we can find it in other areas of life too.

In business, for instance, kissing frogs is closely related with persistence and willing to take risks. Most of successful businesses were not instant hits. Many entrepreneurs tried many things before they found a winner and this approach faithfully follows the values of Jacob and Wilhelm Grimm, represented in the Frog Prince and many of their other fairy tales.

The same stands with education (sometimes you have to do some things you don't like to achieve what you want), health (sometimes the first medicine will not help you and sometimes you have to take it for some time before you notice the results) and I believe this term is very true even when we are talking about lens making.

What do you say? Is this lens a prince or a frog? A princess or a toad?

Zabji kralj in simbolika pravljic - My main resources are in my native Slovene language

There is a link to my translation of Frog King with some interesting background and a link to my blog about symbolic of the fairy tales.

Did you kiss a lot of frogs before you found your prince (or princes)?

Tolovaj Publishing House (author) from Ljubljana on July 17, 2014:

@Richard1988: I hope you can re-read it again:)

Richard from Hampshire - England on July 16, 2014:

This was fascinating. I remember the tale but not very well.

Tolovaj Publishing House (author) from Ljubljana on April 29, 2014:

@flinnie lm: Indeed!

Gloria Freeman from Alabama USA on April 28, 2014:

Hi I enjoyed learning more about the frog prince. Great fairy tale.

Tolovaj Publishing House (author) from Ljubljana on February 03, 2014:

@VioletteRose LM: Yes, best fairy tales can really get under your skin, right?

VioletteRose LM on January 31, 2014:

I always loved reading fairy tales when I was a child and I still love reading them. My favorite was Snow White and the seven dwarfs, I have read it countless times!

Tolovaj Publishing House (author) from Ljubljana on December 13, 2013:

@WriterJanis2: Welcome back!

WriterJanis2 on December 13, 2013:

Had to come back again.

Tolovaj Publishing House (author) from Ljubljana on May 03, 2013:

@WriterJanis2: Thanks!

WriterJanis2 on May 02, 2013:

Enjoying this lens again and pinning it.

Tolovaj Publishing House (author) from Ljubljana on February 26, 2013:

@kabbalah lm: Yep, I know what you are talking about... But I guess we can't have everything (at once)... ;)

kabbalah lm on February 25, 2013:

Found mine quickly. Too bad, all that kissing sounds like fun :)

Tolovaj Publishing House (author) from Ljubljana on February 22, 2013:

@cmadden: Good to hear that!

Tolovaj Publishing House (author) from Ljubljana on February 22, 2013:

@anonymous: Frogs are pretty popular collecting items. I can also agree they are not much of a kissers;)

cmadden on February 22, 2013:

Not too many.

anonymous on February 21, 2013:

I like collecting things with frogs on them. My girlfriend had heaps of different frog ornaments and collections

I don't think I would kiss a real one.

Tolovaj Publishing House (author) from Ljubljana on January 30, 2013:

@anonymous: Kissing frogs are pretty popular:)

anonymous on January 29, 2013:

Returning to smile again at this symbolism. Funny, my sister has a frog figurine with big pink lips awaiting a kiss that I just remembered now.

Tolovaj Publishing House (author) from Ljubljana on December 16, 2012:

@Melissa Miotke: I guess you are lucky;)

Melissa Miotke from Arizona on December 16, 2012:

I didn't have to go through too many frogs before I got to the one:)

Tolovaj Publishing House (author) from Ljubljana on December 10, 2012:

@anonymous: I am blushing...

anonymous on December 09, 2012:

Enjoy how you go deep and find the subtext. Then you find it in other versions and set up this very cool compare and contrast. Superb work!

Tolovaj Publishing House (author) from Ljubljana on November 23, 2012:

@sheilamarie78: Thank you!

Sheilamarie from British Columbia on November 22, 2012:

Another great informative lens about fairy tales. I loved it!

Tolovaj Publishing House (author) from Ljubljana on October 28, 2012:

@sailor_man: The same to you:)

sailor_man on October 25, 2012:

The very much for stopping by my dog and kids lenses. Good Luck to you

Tolovaj Publishing House (author) from Ljubljana on October 11, 2012:

@debbymakarius: Thanks for you support!

debbymakarius on October 10, 2012:

I really loved your work. Very muck liking it. Just dropping by to say take care and more power. Hopefully you can visit my lens too dear. Thanks again!

Tolovaj Publishing House (author) from Ljubljana on October 03, 2012:

@anonymous: You can find a prince or princess in some very unusual places. Just don't stop looking;)

anonymous on October 02, 2012:

Still kissing frogs I guess! May be I'll find a princess someday! Nice work as always... :)

Tolovaj Publishing House (author) from Ljubljana on August 25, 2012:

@Kumar P S: I did my best:)

Tolovaj Publishing House (author) from Ljubljana on August 25, 2012:

@Ardyn25: Thank you!

Ardyn25 on August 24, 2012:

I love the history of fairy tales...thanks, excellent lens.

Tolovaj Publishing House (author) from Ljubljana on August 23, 2012:

@Kumar P S: Thanks!

Kumar P S on August 23, 2012:

Great lens ! Thanks for sharing.

Kumar P S on August 23, 2012:

Great lens ! Thanks for sharing.

Tolovaj Publishing House (author) from Ljubljana on August 19, 2012:

@Rankography: Thanks, it is greatly appreciated!

Rankography on August 18, 2012:

Great lens and a lot of stuff I did not know about the frog and fairy tale metaphor. Blessings sir!

Tolovaj Publishing House (author) from Ljubljana on August 18, 2012:

@anonymous: ;)

anonymous on August 18, 2012:

:), don't ask:). Great lens, a big squidlike from me.

Tolovaj Publishing House (author) from Ljubljana on August 16, 2012:

@WriterJanis2: Thank you:))

WriterJanis2 on August 16, 2012:

Very delightful lens. Blessed!

Tolovaj Publishing House (author) from Ljubljana on August 15, 2012:

@anonymous: Thank you very much:)

anonymous on August 15, 2012:

I have kissed some frogs along the way....someday my prince will come! What a fascinating look at a story I just loved for face value, hadn't considered the symbolism and you did this beautifully!

Tolovaj Publishing House (author) from Ljubljana on August 10, 2012:

@Tagarack: Thanks for your comment. Yes, we should be aware there are different versions of every single fairy tale and sometimes a frog is just a frog:)

Tolovaj Publishing House (author) from Ljubljana on August 09, 2012:

@anonymous: I guess we all did:)

Thank you, appreciated!

Tolovaj Publishing House (author) from Ljubljana on August 09, 2012:

@marlies vaz nunes: Thanks for your kind visit and blessing!

Tagarack on August 08, 2012:

It was a very interesting read. I didn't know that about the Grimm story and how different it was. I guess I always heard the Americanized version when I was a kid. The kissing to offset the violence and sadder ending as stories in the US tend to be more upbeat at the end than in other cultures. The happily ever after if it were.

As to the number of frogs, yeah, a few. :)

anonymous on August 08, 2012:

Yep, I did kiss a frog to. Blessed

Marlies Vaz Nunes from Amsterdam, the Netherlands on August 08, 2012:

Very nice lens. Thanks for sharing!

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