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Psyche and Eros - Aphrodite Will not Forgive

Mythology is a wonderful world that Phyllis can escape to when her mind needs a break from daily life.

The Water Nymph Helps Psyche

The River deity. Psyche's Second Task (Mannerist, 1526–28) by Giulio Romano, from the Palazzo del Tè

The River deity. Psyche's Second Task (Mannerist, 1526–28) by Giulio Romano, from the Palazzo del Tè

Golden Fleece From the Dangerous Sheep

Psyche’s second task was to cross a dangerous stream and go beyond to where a flock of sheep were grazing. The sheep were very dangerous and Aphrodite wanted some of their valuable golden fleece.

Psyche approached the stream and knew she could die in the river. A water nymph came to her and told her to not cross the river, but, to lie down in the shade of a tree till the sun set and the sheep were no longer grazing. Then she could go to the brush wood and gather tufts of fleece that had stuck on the thorns.

Aphrodite Still not Happy

Psyche was grateful to the water nymph when she easily gathered enough golden fleece to make Aphrodite happy.

Still, Aphrodite knew there was some trick to Psyche's success. She said, "We shall see if you are worthy of my son." A third task was given Psyche, a task that would test the courage of her heart and most likely end in death for her. She was to fetch an urn of water from the holy river, Cocytus, where the water fell over a steep precipice into an abyss. Wild dragons haunted the area and hissed as they threatened to devour her. When she reached the river, she collapsed in tears just as the mighty eagle of Zeus swept down and hovered near her. Eros had once given Zeus tremendous help, and to now show his gratitude, sent the eagle to help the wife of Eros, his grandson.

The eagle took the urn, flew up to the raging waters and filled it. With new courage, and feeling the spirit of Eros ever closer, protecting her, Psyche returned to Aphrodite with the holy water. Yet, Aphrodite was far from letting her heart soften. She had been taking care of Eros, who was suffering from his loss of Psyche and lay sick in bed, so her patience was wearing thin with Psyche and she wanted to end the relation with her daughter-in-law whom Eros was sick with love for.

Aphrodite exclaimed to Psyche that since the holy water task was accomplished beyond expectations, that she must be a witch. She was not yet willing to accept Psyche worthy of her son, nor let her go free. She gave one more task to Psyche, hoping this would be the one to rid her of the bride of Eros.

The Underworld

Aphrodite was very discouraged that Psyche had been able to complete all three tasks she sent her on. Wanting to be rid of the determined young woman forever, Aphrodite sent her on the most dangerous journey, to the depths of the Underground, the home of Hades. The goddess did not want to see Psyche and Eros reunited.

She gave Psyche a small box and told her to take it to her niece, Persephone, Queen of Hades, in the infernal regions. Psyche was to ask for a spray of the fountain of youth to refresh Aphrodite for the loss of seven days of beauty for tending to Eros. Psyche now lost any hope she had gained in believing that Eros was near in spirit to protect her. Aphrodite felt better, however, knowing that she sent Psyche to the land from where she would never again return nor see the sun.

Psyche Enters the Underworld

Psyché aux enfers (1865) by Eugène Ernest Hillemacher: Charon rows Psyche past a dead man in the water and the old weavers on shore

Psyché aux enfers (1865) by Eugène Ernest Hillemacher: Charon rows Psyche past a dead man in the water and the old weavers on shore

Psyche Opens the box

Psyche found her way to a tower above the abyss that led to the infernal regions underground. She sat by the tower and contemplated flinging herself down to Hades kingdom from the tower.

The tower spoke to her and told her about another entrance that would lead her to the palace of Hades. She must carry two coins in her mouth for Charon to ferry her over and back across the river of the dead. She gave Psyche some barley bread. The tower told her to be silent during the journey and ignore any calls for help -- all these calls for help would be from apparitions doomed forever there and will only snare her to become one of them. When she came to the three-headed dog, she was to give it half the barley bread to calm it so she could pass.

Psyche followed the instructions carefully and finally came to an entrance that led directly to Persephone, sitting on a throne by Hades. She was received graciously and offered food from the banquet table. Psyche refused just as graciously, for the tower had told her if she ate any food from the royal banquet, she would not be able to ever leave.

Persephone filled the box with the gift for Aphrodite. She remembered her own misfortune as a young maiden and was kind to Psyche.

Psyche returned the way she had come and followed the same instructions. When she was on her way to Aphrodite's palace, she pondered about the contents of the box and stopped. She was weary, weak and knew that her own beauty was fading from all the travels and dangerous tasks she had been assigned. Why should I not benefit from this gift to be youthful and beautiful for my husband when I find him? she wondered.

Psyche took the lid off the box. A deadly odor drifted out, engulfing her. The vapor was not of beauty and youth, but heavy sleepiness and forgetfulness. She sank to the ground into a state of death-like sleep, surrounded by the vapor.

Psyche Opens the Golden box

Psyche Opening the Golden Box by John William Waterhouse (1903)

Psyche Opening the Golden Box by John William Waterhouse (1903)

Eros Awakens

All during the time that Psyche had been struggling to stay alive, find her husband and complete the dangerous tasks assigned to her by Aphrodite, Eros had been lying in bed healing. He now arose and found that Aphrodite had imprisoned him. A cage had been built completely around his chamber.

A butterfly came in through a window and told Eros of Psyche's deep sleep. Eros escaped through the same window and flew swiftly to his beloved.

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He found Psyche in the sleep of near death and quickly removed the vapor of slumber from her eyelids, restoring it to the vase. Then he touched her with the tip of one of his arrows, and she came back to life. He awakened her with a kiss -- Psyche opened her eyes and looked upon the beloved face she had been seeking. He told her that the vapors of youth worked only on gods and goddesses and was fatal to mortal beings. As her held her in his arms, he chastised her gently for being so curious and opening the box.

Eros told Psyche to continue her task and take the box back to Aphrodite. He said he must leave her for awhile and take care of things for them. He kissed her again and flew up to Olympus to speak with Zeus and present his cause.

Eros Finds his Beloved Psyche in the Sleep of Near Death

Cupid and Psyche (1639–40) by Anthony van Dyck: Cupid finds the sleeping Psyche

Cupid and Psyche (1639–40) by Anthony van Dyck: Cupid finds the sleeping Psyche

Butterfly Wings

Psyche cried as she watched her beloved once again fly away from her. She knew her beauty and energy had faded and wondered if he would still love her. She got up and went to a stream to freshen herself.

As she sat down and leaned over the water she looked at her reflection and was stunned. She was not a maiden of faded beauty, but more beautiful than ever. She was overcome with joy and happiness. She was so elated she felt as if she could float in the air. Her whole being was transformed into a radiant and glorious woman. She felt so light as the transformation continued and two butterfly wings, so marvelous and iridescent, appeared on her shoulders.

Butterfly Wings

Zeus Intervenes

Mighty Zeus listened to the pleas of his beloved grandson, Eros, and bent to kiss the young god. "Considering that thou art very dear to me, and that I have nursed thee with my own hand, I will gladly comply with thy wishes," he told Eros. (from Psyche and Eros, by Apuleius)

Zeus at once ordered an assembly for all of the celestial beings. In short time the great hall was filled with gods and goddesses.

On his way back to earth, Eros met Aphrodite coming into the assembly. He told her that if she continued in her pursuit to banish Psyche, he would leave Olympus to be with his beloved. To be with Psyche in Tartaros would be far better than to be in Heaven without her he told his mother.

When Eros found Psyche, they embraced each other with passion. She told him she had delivered the box to Aphrodite and was dismissed with disdain, for the vapors had lost their magic. Eros told her not to be concerned about his mother, for the Father of all gods was his ally. He put his arm around Psyche and together they flew to Heaven. When they arrived at the throne of Zeus, they stood before him together. Zeus sat on his throne as he spoke to the assembly.

Wedding Banquet

The Wedding Banquet of Cupid and Psyche (1517) by Raphael and his workshop, from the Loggia di Psiche (it), Villa Farnesina

The Wedding Banquet of Cupid and Psyche (1517) by Raphael and his workshop, from the Loggia di Psiche (it), Villa Farnesina

Zeus has Spoken

Zeus said that Eros, being the youngest of the gods and the most frivolous, with an impulsive nature, would highly benefit and mature properly if he assumed the responsibility of marriage and his own household -- therefore, as Eros had already chosen Psyche as his wife, the marriage was blessed and validated as legal. Zeus then decreed that Psyche was to become an equal in the Olympian circle of deities.

Psyche and Eros were reunited in divine love and happiness.

Faith and Trust

The love of Psyche and Eros is a rare and gentle thing. The two belong together and are symbolic of the love a couple can find when they have faith and trust in each other.

Note From Author

When Zeus bestows butterfly wings on Psyche, it is symbolic of her death to the ravages of loss of faith and trust -- as the caterpillar dies it goes into a period of renewal and returns as a beautiful butterfly. Thus, Psyche is given the gift of immortality with her beloved Eros.

I hope you have enjoyed my series on Psyche and Eros. This is the final chapter of the series. The whole set can be found on my profile page.

1. Psyche and Eros - her beauty brings misfortune

2. Psyche and Eros - Eros is in Love

3. Psyche and Eros - Beauty all around her

4. Psyche and Eros - Betrayal

5. Psyche and Eros - Aphrodite will not forgive

© 2014 Phyllis Doyle Burns


Phyllis Doyle Burns (author) from High desert of Nevada. on December 28, 2014:

Hi toknowinfo. Thanks for stopping by to read and to leave a such a nice comment. There is a lot to explore in mythology and it is one of my favorite topics to write on. Thanks again.

toknowinfo on December 28, 2014:

Well written and very interesting. Thank you for sharing this wonderful story. Mythology is always an interesting subject and you presented it in a wonderfully written piece in the series.

Phyllis Doyle Burns (author) from High desert of Nevada. on October 22, 2014:

Travel-man, I so appreciate you reading the whole story and commenting. Yes, love conquers all - even Aphrodite. Thanks again.

Ireno Alcala from Bicol, Philippines on October 21, 2014:

Truly, love conquers all!

Thank you for sharing such a great legend of LOVE.

Phyllis Doyle Burns (author) from High desert of Nevada. on October 17, 2014:

Thank you very much, Devika. That is very kind of you.

Devika Primić from Dubrovnik, Croatia on October 17, 2014:

I like the photos and always an interesting hub from you.

Phyllis Doyle Burns (author) from High desert of Nevada. on October 17, 2014:

You are most welcome, Jodah. Thank you for staying with the series. I so appreciate your support and always kind words.

John Hansen from Australia (Gondwana Land) on October 16, 2014:

A beautiful series Phyllis. I didn't comment on each hub, just the first and last...but it was a wonderful read. Thank you for all the work you put into this.

Phyllis Doyle Burns (author) from High desert of Nevada. on October 16, 2014:

Wow, Mary, thank you so much for that very fine compliment. I am very happy you enjoyed the story. Thanks again for the votes and share.

Phyllis Doyle Burns (author) from High desert of Nevada. on October 16, 2014:

You are welcome, Frank. I am glad you enjoyed the series. I will miss writing them, I got so involved with the story. Thank you so much.

Mary Craig from New York on October 16, 2014:

Phyllis, each of these chapters tells the tale of Eros and Pysche better than any I've read so far and I've read quite a few. The difference is, yours I will remember. So well done, easy to read and understand and punctuated with beautiful pictures and song.

Voted up, useful, awesome, interesting, and shared.

Frank Atanacio from Shelton on October 16, 2014:

thank you again for sharing your series.. with us.. now I can go back and read them over again wonderful Phyllis

Phyllis Doyle Burns (author) from High desert of Nevada. on October 15, 2014:

Thank you so much, Suzette. I really appreciate your very kind comment and am glad you enjoyed my hub and the images.

Suzette Walker from Taos, NM on October 15, 2014:

Beautiful story and beautifully written and told. I love the images of the paintings telling the story also. Beautiful hub!

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