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13 Reasons for Homeschooling You May Have Overlooked

Homeschool: Freedom to Exercise Creativity

Homeschooled kids get to experiment and learn many new skills like cooking in an interactive, nurturing environment.

Homeschooled kids get to experiment and learn many new skills like cooking in an interactive, nurturing environment.

What do you think the three most important reasons for homeschooling are? Well, according to the study Homeschooling in the United States (2003), the top three reasons individuals give for homeschooling their children are:

  1. The belief they could educated their children better at home.
  2. They had religious reasons for choosing to homeschool.
  3. Their concern about the quality and safety of the learning environments in schools.

Of these three, most respondents were either concerned about the school environment and a child's potential exposure to drugs, peer pressure or violence (85.4%), or they wanted children to have religious instruction (72.3%). (Click link for the methodology and technical notes, including information on sampling and nonsampling errors for this study.)

While these are all good reasons for homeschooling, they do not cover the range of reasons for parents and guardians to choose to educate children in a home environment rather than send them to a public or private school. Including the three already mentioned, which we'll expanded on in this discussion, here are 13 reasons you may not have thought about for opting for a homeschool learning environment for children.

1. You don't want strangers to choose your children's educational materials and curricula.

School curricula is chosen by school boards and committees, educators and others, but those decisions may or may not be based on what is best for children. The choices may be influenced by special interest groups, by budget constraints, or by the lure of federal monies in exchange for using a particular curriculum.

What does this mean for parents who prefer their children to learn about reading and the language arts by reading classic books rather than government documents? What if you don't want your kindergartner to participate in "family life" (sex education) classes? Choosing to homeschool is usually the best answer to questions such as these.

Choose Your Own Curriculum

The beauty of homeschooling is the home educator chooses what courses to include and which to exclude from a child's educational plan. Each curriculum can be evaluated on its own merits, and the home educator can even design an personalized course of study if necessary. Additionally, they decide when children are ready for each course of study.

Set Your Own Classroom Routines

If you'd like to start every home school day with a pledge of allegiance to the American flag, the Christian flag, or the Bible, you can choose to do so. Homeschool educators have the perfect solution for bringing prayer back to schools; they simply make it a part of their everyday classroom routine.

States With Parental Rights Laws

2. It's Your God-given Right

God assigned the duty for educating children to parents, not to schools or the government.

The Bible has much to say about how child are to be educated. The following scriptures are offered as a guide to get you started, but before you make a decision about homeschooling, search the scriptures for yourself until you are satisfied about God's will for you in this matter.

  • In Deuteronomy 4:9, and 6:6-9, parents are exhorted to teach their children God's commandments as well as what they have learned about God. They are encouraged to talk about these commandments, post them on the door frames of their homes and the city gates, and tie them as symbols on their hands and foreheads. (This latter commandment refers to the Jewish practice of binding bags—also known as phylacteries—containing scripture verses from Exodus and Deuteronomy to their arms and heads. )
  • Proverbs 22:6 tells parents to teach children God's ways from early childhood so that when they are old, they will still be following his commandments.
  • Proverbs 4:3-5 is an illustration of a father teaching his child to seek wisdom and follow his father's commandments. The son is instructed to hear and obey his father's words and assured that wisdom will love and protect him.
  • Ephesians 6:4 instructs fathers to raise children in Christian discipline without exasperating them. (The word used here for fathers could be translated parents according to Bible Gateway; the phrase "exasperating them" could be translated "without making them bitter".)

States With Religious Freedom Restoration Acts

The Religious Freedom Restoration Acts in these states protect the rights of those with a deeply held religious conviction to homeschool their children.









New Mexico



Rhode Island

South Carolina




3. You can work within your family's dynamics, not against them.

Many parents decide to homeschool because they don't want their children making long bus commutes twice a day or because of a child's disability. Long commute times can lead to sleep deprivation in children (or parents), and affect the quality of a family's life, especially if the family includes one or more special needs children.

4. Your children become independent thinkers who love to learn.

Unfortunately, most American schools have moved to the model of teaching to the test, with the Standards of Learning (SOLs) being the gold standard for assessing progress. Most of the school year is invested in training children to take and to pass these SOLs, which means real academic learning is relegated to second place.

In some cases, according to The National Center for Fair and Open Testing, subjects such as art, physical education, social studies or science are abbreviated or even dropped because of pressure to train children on the materials needed to pass the SOLs.

Many parents opt for homeschooling because they want their children to be equipped with critical thinking skills and useable knowledge versus being able to fill in the right bubble on an SOL test. They do this by providing rich learning environments with lots of hands-on activities, field trips and experiments in addition to classroom work and textbook study.

What's Your Opinion on Homeschooling?

5. Your children develop marketable life skills.

Most schools are not graduating students with marketable skills according to William J. Bennett and David Wilezol, authors of Is College Worth It?

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In their own words, "In today's colleges, much of what is taught in the humanities and social science is nonsense (or nonsense on stilts), politically tendentious, and worth little in the marketplace and for the enrichment of your mind or soul. " As a former United States Secretary of Education, Mr. Bennett has the credentials to speak to this subject with authority.

A desire to equip children with marketable skills that will enable them to live financially fulfilling lives is another reason for homeschooling many parents and guardians have embraced. Parents observe their children's skills, abilities, and preferences and help them acquire the education and training necessary to work in occupations that match their demonstrated strengths.

6. You pass on your culture and heritage in whatever way you choose.

Children in a home schooling environment learn by example, so whatever morals, values and ethics you hold dear and exhibit in your daily life and behaviors are the influences that shape their characters and mold their integrity.

7. Your children learn under an umbrella of safety.

Homeschooled children are safe from bullies, peer pressure and criticism, drug and substance abuse, and random acts of violence. They learn in a nurturing environment where they are affirmed and their self-worth and value as individuals is acknowledged.

8. Children received a personalized rather than one-size-fits-all education.

Standardized curricula and rigid classroom teaching methods are designed for making teaching to the masses easier and more effective. Unfortunately, the child who cannot keep up with the group or has specialized learning needs may be left behind by such cookie cutter methods.

Homeschool educators design educational programs to teach to the areas of children's weakness while building on their areas of strength. They can teach to each child's individual learning style, and children have the freedom to learn at their own pace rather than feeling stressed to keep up with a group.

Additionally, home educators have the flexibility to offer their children richer learning experiences by immersing them in cultural, historical or other unique academic pursuits that would not be offered in the traditional classroom.

9. The choices of how and when your child is socialized are made by you, not some autonomous government agency.

Homeschooling your children allows you to decide when to introduce sensitive and sometimes controversial subjects such as puberty, sexuality and so on. Participation in group events or cooperative studies is done on a scale that suits your child's needs rather than the demands of some arbitrary academic schedule.

As parents or guardians, you choose the social contacts you deem most appropriate for your child. This allows you to filter out negative influences on susceptible youngsters until they are mature enough to handle them appropriately.

A good example of this is a family that doesn't allow the use of profane language doesn't not have to worry about children learning these words in a home school environment, but their children could be exposed to that type of language in an unmonitored group environment.

Socialization Choices: A Benefit of Homeschooling

Homeschooling allows you to socialize with like-minded families and friends.

Homeschooling allows you to socialize with like-minded families and friends.

10. Your child is educated holistically: academically, spiritually and physically.

The purpose here is not to debate whether public or private schools are the best academic venue for educating children, but to raise the question of whether they are the best choice for parents and guardians who want their children educated in other areas as well as academics such as religion or mental and physical wellness.

Homeschooling allows you to choose the depth of immersion you want your children to have in each of these areas. If you want your children to reach a higher degree of spiritual development, you can incorporate more religious studies into their individual educational plan so your children's spiritual development happens by design in a homeschool environment rather than being left to chance. On the other hand, it may be more important to you to strike a balance in all three areas rather than focusing on one. As the educator, the choice is yours.

Finally, you can include family, extended family and even friends in your child's homeschool learning program. As you can see in the photos below, home economics is way more fun when it's hands-on and taught by great-grandma!

Homeschool Home Economics Is Tasty Fun!

Learning to cook with grea-grandma is part of my homeschool fun.

Learning to cook with grea-grandma is part of my homeschool fun.

Food is tastier when you help to make it!

Food is tastier when you help to make it!

Well Granny, do I get an A in Home Economics?

Well Granny, do I get an A in Home Economics?

11. Homeschooling is healthier for children.

No matter how conscientious you are as a parent, it's difficult to provide children with healthy boxed lunches 5 days a week for every week they attend school. Additionally, even if you pack the most nutritious lunches and snacks your budget allows, how do you know whether they are eating the food, trading it with others, or simply throwing it away?

By preparing and serving them meals and snacks every day, you can monitor their nutritional health as well as their academic health and ensure even the pickiest eaters are eating well-balanced meals.

Most schools incorporate physical education into their curriculum but especially as children grow older, the physical education classes may be only one or two times per week or alternated with health classes.

Homeschoolers have the freedom to exercise and be physically active every day, and they can also choose from a wider range of physical activities. Want to go rock climbing at the local rock climbing wall or skating at an ice rink? Go ahead - it's your choice.

Homeschooled children experience less stress because they take their tests, quizzes and assessments in a relaxed atmosphere rather than in a classroom under pressure to finish within the allotted timeframe.

States With the Fewest Homeschool Restrictions

States with the lowest levels of state requirements or regulations on homeschooling








New Jersey



12. Homeschooling is your constitutional right.

Many homeschoolers believe the Ninth and Tenth Amendment guarantees their right to choose how their children are educated.

Ninth and Tenth Amendments

In a nutshell, the Ninth amendment reserves to the people the unenumerated powers, while the Tenth amendment reserves to the states and the people those powers not delegated to the United States, or prohibited to it by the states.

First Amendment

Many also believe the First Amendment, which among other things addresses freedom of speech and religion, also protects and establishes their constitutional right to homeschool.

Important Supreme Court Rulings

For general reference, it's interesting to note that in 1923, the Supreme Court made two landmark rulings regarding parents and homeschooling.

  1. In the case of Meyer v Nebraska, their ruling was that parents have the right to decide how their children are raised and educated.
  2. In the case of Pierce v Society of Sisters, their ruling was that a state law which forced children to attend public school violated parental rights to control children's education and upbringing. While these are not the only rulings of the Supreme Court about parental rights, they most likely set the precedence for future cases.

Do Your Homework

However, a key element to keep in mind is the section about the "not delegated powers being reserved to the states..." If you want to homeschool your child, it's in your best interest to check with your state to see if your right to homeshool is protected or abridged by your state constitution.

States With The Most Homeschool Restrictions

States with the highest levels of requirements or regulations on homeschooling


North Dakota

New York


Rhode Island


13. Just Because You Can...

As we've seen here, there are a multitude of reasons for homeschooling, and they cover many facets of a family's emotional, spiritual and physical makeup. Homeschooling is not the right choice for every child and every family, but it is encouraging to know that we live in a country that empowers us to make the best choices for our families, and we can choose to homeschool...just because we have the freedom to choose.


  1. Undisclosed author, "Phylacteries," Jewish Encyclopedia
  2. Undisclosed author, "Parent's Reasons for Homeschooling," Homeschooling in the United States (2003), National Center for Education Statistics
  3. Undisclosed author, "The Dangerous Consequences of High-Stakes Standardized Testing," FairTest,
  4. Irons, Dawn Michelle, "When Government Intervention Becomes Excessive: The Rights of States versus the Rights of Parents," Family Rights
  5. Bennett, William J. and Wilezol, David, Is College Worth It?, pg viii, Thomas Nelson, copyright 2013
  6. Information in the tables "States with Religious Freedom Restoration Acts," "States with the Fewest Homeschool Restrictions," and "States with the Most Homeschool Restrictions" was compiled from "Summary of Laws"

This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.

© 2013 Donna Cosmato


Elena@LessIsHealthy on August 07, 2013:

I found your article very useful.

Donna Cosmato (author) from USA on May 11, 2013:

Hi Rose Anne, I'm working on a companion hub to this one that answers some of the most commonly asked questions about homeschooling. I'll put some tips in the socialization section to address your concerns, okay? I hope to have it live Tuesday or Wednesday of next week - it's pretty long, just like this one, but I wanted to try to cover as much ground as possible. Thanks for reading and commenting!

Rose Anne Karesh from Virginia on May 10, 2013:

Hi DonnaCosmato, can you comment about ways to give your children experience in working with their peers, sharing, getting along with other kids etc... while being homeschooled? My husband and I have talked about homeschooling for many reasons but this is an obstacle that worries us. Thanks!

Donna Cosmato (author) from USA on May 08, 2013:

Thanks for commenting on this homeschool hub Onusonus! I hope you can one day achieve your goal of homeschooling your children.

Onusonus on May 07, 2013:

Good hub. I wish my kids could be home schooled.

Donna Cosmato (author) from USA on May 07, 2013:

Thanks for reading and commenting on this hub about the reasons for homeschooling Poetvix. You are spot on in your observation about schools not wanting people to homeschool because it impacts the amount of federal monies and other subsidies they receive. I also agree with you that we are probably going to see a growing opposition to homeschooling because there is a growing political agenda to abolish parental rights and relegate children to the status of wards of the state.

While homeschooling is not the right choice for everyone, I hope people who may be on the fence about trying it will get some new food for thought from reading this brief overview.

Donna Cosmato (author) from USA on May 07, 2013:

Thanks Dee aka Nonna for your support of this homeschooling hub. It sounds like your family really rallied around your son to support his decision, which is so important. Many homeschooling families struggle to get family and/or extended family to understand their motives and decisions about this issue.

I think it's awesome that your granddaughter is excelling so far above grade level! Congratulations for taking on this challenge and giving her an opportunity to achieve so much more than she could have in another learning environment. I wish you and your family all the best in your homeschooling journey.

Donna Cosmato (author) from USA on May 07, 2013:

Thanks Lisa, I appreciate your input on my hubs, and I glad you like our little guy's pictures! That's my mom with him in the cooking photos; he loves to learn from his great-grandma. We did try private schooling but ran into lots of problems there because of a lack of qualified staff to work with an autistic child. It's interesting to know that homeschooling is gaining in popular in your part of the world just like it is here. Thanks for sharing that tidbit of information.

Donna Cosmato (author) from USA on May 07, 2013:

Thanks Daughter of Maat for your feedback on this hub about homeschooling. It's true - as parents, we do have a much better feel for our children than teachers can have with the overcrowded conditions in most school rooms. Kudos to you for being willing to make personal sacrifices to ensure your daughter has every educational advantage you can offer her.

poetvix from Gone from Texas but still in the south. Surrounded by God's country. on May 07, 2013:

Considering the deterioration of skills provided by public schools as evidenced by our ever falling national rankings in most subjects, this is both timely and interesting. While I support the right of parents to make the decisions, I think we will find more and more opposition to that as time moves on. Districts get paid off attendance. They don't like the idea of home schooling unless it's for a student they would like to get rid of. With more and more home schooling options coming online daily for those parents who have to work and can't physically be there, I think the home option may appeal to many. It's safer. That's for sure, especially in the higher grades.

Dee aka Nonna on May 07, 2013:

This is a great hub. There are so many people with negative judgements about people who choose to homeschool. My son made the decision to homeschool when his youngest child was struggling with reading. The school (in a good school district) wanted to label her and my son was not having it. He had a family meeting and when everyone was supportive doled out assignment. Each one of us---parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, etc. would be responsible for different things. It has worked beautifully and the kids are loving it. We travel, go on picnics, explore business opportunities, do history adventures and mysteries, and much, much more. My granddaughter who was struggling with reading is not anymore. In fact she is reading at two grade levels higher than the grade she would be in if still in school.

Bravo to you for sharing this information. Vote up, awesome and useful.

liswilliams from South Africa on May 07, 2013:

This was an excellent hub, Donna - homeschooling is also on the rise where I stay, not only for the main reasons you state. Mainly because private schools are expensive and the rest of the schools are so bad. I love the photos :)

Mel Flagg COA OSC from Rural Central Florida on May 06, 2013:

Great hub! I decided to homeschool my daughter mainly because of her ADHD and the fact that I know her better than some strange teacher. When I was making my decision, I also thought "why did I have a child if I didn't want to teach her myself?" Letting someone else teach my daughter just isn't an option. :D Voted up and shared!

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